So I have not written a blog in FOREVER but I'm trying to get back into the habit of it I've been really busy lately and life is CRAZY! Anyways.... So lately I'm trying to find out who I am transitioning from College into the "Real World" and let me just tell you it is not easy! I have been so overwhelmed with everything...so recently getting out of a long distance relationship I've had to change some habits that we seem to gain from relationships in general, and one thing I seem to lose the most tangled in a relationship is myself and my values and what I think I should deserve. I've been doing a lot of self-reflection and trying to get back to my "happy" place. I tend to mold myself to another person's wishes and I put what they would want over my own needs and wants. This my friends can be a positive and a negative at times. I think its good because it takes compromise to be in a relationship but I also think its bad because you'll find yourself accepting things that you normally would not tolerate. You have to ask yourself how much is too much? and I like this person so much should I just stay and try to forget that happened or they treated me like this? I have to take a step back and evaluate myself and my worth...what do i deserve? what do i think about myself? Recently I've started to realize im worth a lot more than I ever thought... I've started to realize I do deserve to be treated great and shouldn't have to put up with stuff that most people wouldn't. I think that we should all take a step back and find out who we are and what we think we deserve and never settle for anything less. We only have ourselves to blame for our own unhappiness.
It's good to be back :)
XOXO
Jenna Lyne
p.s. please keep my best friend Cara in your prayers, thank you!
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